What Success Is

by Elaine Lockard on January 25, 2010

I recently watched the 2009 remake of the movie Fame.  In it, one of the characters gives her impression of what success is and is not.

The passage is very inspiring.  It speaks not only to the material but the spiritual side of success.  It reveals the underlying feelings you get from true success.

Simply stated, you can have all the materials possessions which can come with money, wealth and power but if you don’t have joy in your heart, if you don’t love what you are doing, if you don’t help others, then success is a hollow victory in your life.

Here is the passage for your review:

Some things success is not:  it’s not fame, it’s not money or power

Success is waking up in the morning so excited about what you have to do, that you literally fly out the door.

It’s getting to work with people you love.

Success is connecting with the world and make people feel.

It’s finding a way to bind together people who have nothing in common, but a dream.

It’s falling asleep at night knowing you did the best job you could.

Success is joy and freedom and friendship and…

Success is love…

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So, you have decided to start your own home-based business and stop working 9 to 5 for someone else.  Congratulations!!

Now, the first question, or questions, you must ask yourself are, “Do I really want to do this?”  ”Do I really love or, at least, really like what I am going to do?”

Why ask these questions?  The answer is motivation.  If you are going to stay motivated to work, willing to put in the extra hours (yes, more than 40 hours a week), do the marketing, sales, bookkeeping, clerical work, etc, that goes with any business, then you should have a passion or, at least, a strong liking for what you are going to do if you want to be successful.  Without this passion, you will over time loose your motivation and interest and eventually your business will fail. You will be back to square one with only a depleted bank account to show for it, if not worse, and will have wasted a lot of your precious time.

With passion for what you are doing, you happily put in the time to grow and maintain your business.  Just think of how many times in your life you had to do a chore.  Did it feel like a chore when you liked doing it?  How about when you did not like what you had to do?  Which was easier?  The former I bet.

To paraphrase a quote I just read, do what you love and is easiest for you and charge for it.  Believe me, in the end, you will have more of a chance of succeeding  and you will be happy and enjoy the ride while getting there.

Now that you have asked yourself these first questions and decided what you are going to do, what is the second question you must ask yourself and consider?……………..

(This article is the first in a series of articles about starting and maintaining a home-based business.  Come back later to read the second and subsequent articles.)

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Strategic Internet Marketing – Why It’s Important

by Elaine Lockard on December 22, 2009

How many of you have a “To Do” list?  I bet most of you do.  I know I do. We have such busy lives, we need a plan to stayed focused on what’s needed, what’s important.

In business, especially a business that markets through the Internet, you must have a plan of action or you spend too much time and resources doing other things that bring in little money for the effort.

That is where Strategic Internet Marketing comes in to help you get to where you want to be in your business success.  This article, “What is Strategic Internet Marketing?” by Kasey Traeger, explains how and why it works.  I invite you to read it and reply in the comments how you are using this in your business and, if not, how could it be of use to you if you started.

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Reciprocity – The Golden Rule in Networking

by Elaine Lockard on December 12, 2009

Networking is founded on building relationships.  What better way to build a relationship than by being of service to your business partner HarrisonMonarthor colleague and they, in turn, are also of service to you.  This exchange or giving to one another is called reciprocity and is a very powerful tool in building and keeping your network of contacts and connections.

I recently ran across an excellent article on this subject by Harrison Monarth called, “Harness the Power of Gratitude with the Reciprocity Technique.” This is an excellent article, which I invite you to read. It contains a wealth of useful information.

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Improve your Communication Skills – Choose the Correct Words

November 30, 2009

Have you ever met someone who used words you did not understand? I am sure you have because I know I have. These words seem like they are fresh out of a dictionary and you would certainly need one to know what they meant. Or, on the other hand, the person may [...]

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Holiday Tips – My Three C’s

November 16, 2009

With the holidays fast approaching, you may not be looking forward to them if you have a chronic condition.  You possibly, may already be feeling guilty or frustrated just thinking about:
•    Shopping for your family and having to ask someone else to do it for you
•    Being able to attend the events your child is [...]

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After Acceptance, What Then?

October 17, 2009

After you have worked hard to reach the point of acceptance of your chronic condition, what do you do next? What will help you the most?
The answer is YOU! You become your own advocate for your wellness and peace of mind.
You:

discuss your condition with your doctor and ask how you can best be proactive, support [...]

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National Breast Cancer Awareness Month

October 10, 2009

October is National Breast Cancer Awareness Month. It is the time for us to stop and take stock of this disease and how it is effecting the lives of so many people in this world. There is hardly any person that does not know at least one individual, be it a woman or a man [...]

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Year Against Musculoskeletal Pain

October 3, 2009

In an attempt to raise awareness on Musculoskeletal Pain, which is the most common of all pain, the International Association for the Study of Pain (IASP) has designated the year beginning on October 19, 2009 until October 19, 2010 as the Global Year Against Musculoskeletal Pain.
There will be a variety of resources and educational materials [...]

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Goal Setting – An Integral Part of Pain Management

September 27, 2009

Goal setting is an important factor in pain management but it has its difficulties that both patient and health professional need to be aware of. This article “Goal Setting – Again!” by Bronwyn Thompson explores these difficulties and gives us all something to think about before, during, and after the process.
I suggest not only reading [...]

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